What is a "Real" Writer?
by
Gina Ardito
I hate to break it to you, but writers come into this world the same way as everyone else. And when we
take up the pen or set our fingers on the keyboard, we have the same 24 hours in a day, the same
family obligations, the same career issues, and other distractions as everyone else in the world. The
difference is we make writing a priority.
Note I didn't say, the priority. Because that's an ideal most of us can't or won't commit to. But for those
of you struggling to become a "real writer," here are a few basic ideas about what that term really
means.
Real writers show up at the keyboard every day. Well, okay, maybe not every day is spent in front of a
computer. But we do find unique opportunities to jot down notes, play with plot points, and keep our
writing a priority when other priorities demand our attention. We get out of bed an hour early, skip our
favorite television show in favor of some writing time, or sneak in a chapter once the kids are asleep.
We try to write or work on our writing in some way at least five days a week (like a real job...'cuz, hey!
That's what it is!) We might bring a pad and paper to jury duty or the doctor's office or a school function.
We read on the beach and in the bathtub and before we go to sleep, whether it's books on the craft or
books by our favorite authors, we're constantly studying the market, the trends, and the business. We
attend workshops, whether in person or online. We (okay..."I") run dialogue while stuck in traffic. The
point is, we spend a great deal of time focused on writing.
Real writers don't blow deadlines. My dear friend and idol, Bertrice Small, will back me up that this is a
Cardinal Rule in writing. Blowing deadlines is unprofessional, inconsiderate, and just plain
self-destructive. Good girl that I am (honest!), I'm big on following the rules. So even when I don't have a
true deadline, I set myself on one. Whether it's to finish a WIP, complete edits, start sending queries or
followups, or to send something back to my editor (like the copyedited version of A Run for the Money,
which I'm currently reviewing), I choose a reasonable date as my goal and stick to it. The important
thing to remember is to make the date reasonable and then stay focused as if your career depended
upon you making that deadline. Because, in the long haul, it does!
Real writers have discipline, not excuses. Through the years I've met lots of people who want to write
and have even begun the process. Some may have finished a manuscript or two. A few have not only
completed a manuscript but have received a request from an agent or editor to review the manuscript
for possible publication! But...somewhere on the journey, the glorious momentum stops. The writer
becomes distracted or fearful of the next step or procrastinates on the follow-up and wham! Years go
by and they still haven't moved forward. Or they've begun a new project without ever completing the
final steps on the old project. And they get caught in this vicious circle: start something, stop; start
something new, stop; start something new, stop. The list of excuses is endless: "I'm waiting until I have
more time," "My day job is crazy busy," "The agent or editor has probably forgotten all about me by
now," "I decided to write something totally new and different..." Sorry, kids. You want to be a real
writer? Stick your butt in the chair and write! And when you've completed your story, submit it! And
while you're waiting to hear from those submissions, write something else!
Real writers take risks. It takes a lot of courage to decide you have something worthwhile to say to the
world at large. It takes even more courage to start the process of writing. And you're dipping into that
courage well again to finish the story, to share it with outsiders, to submit it to publishing houses and
agents even when you get rejection after rejection. And the need for courage doesn't stop when you
sign the contract either. There are reviews and booksignings and speaking engagements and
promotion, and a host of other terrifying "monsters" to face. Again and again and again. The trick is to
keep going, always moving forward, always conquering those monsters.
So...how about you? Are you a real writer?